Quote - John Wesley

"Many do not recognize the fact as they ought, that Satan has got men fast asleep in sin and that it is his great device to keep them so. He does not care what we do if he can do that. We may sing songs about the sweet by and by, preach sermons and say prayers until doomsday, and he will never concern himself about us, if we don't wake anybody up. But if we awake the sleeping sinner he will gnash on us with his teeth. This is our work - to wake people up." - John Wesley

From: http://www.christianquotes.org/

Downfalls of the Self Esteem Movement

Ever notice how society tells us to heap endless praise (often insincere or undeserved) on children and youth, being afraid to offer constructive criticism?  Do you wonder how we got to the point where every child must get an award at school or in competitive events, instead of advocating that awards be earned or won?

I grew up under this era of the "self-esteem" movement, always earning a ribbon at swim meets whether I was first-place or sixth-place (don't see that at the Olympics!) and in getting a trophy for every season of baseball that I played.  Despite being raised in this generation, it also seems that this "self-esteem" movement has continued to progress to the point that it has gone overboard.  It is worrisome to see some of the statistics that show the effects of such a culture.

In an article titled "U.S. Teens Brimming with Self-Esteem," some interesting trends are noted concerning teenagers of today:

• "more likely to claim they are "A" students with high IQs -- even though other research shows that today's students do less homework than their counterparts did in the 1970s."
• "confidence has crossed over into overconfidence"
• "decades of relentless, uncritical boosterism by parents and school systems may be producing a generation of kids with expectations that are out of sync with the challenges of the real world"
• "compared to their counterparts from the '70s, today's youth also tended to rate themselves as more intelligent and were more likely to say they were "completely satisfied" with themselves"
• "setting goals for yourself is a good thing. It's just when those goals are wildly unrealistic, then that can cause trouble for everyone"
• "'These kids didn't raise themselves, they got these ideas from somewhere,' Twenge said. With Mom and Dadhanding out endless praise, kids today readily believe they are somehow superior, she said. And teachers aren't blameless, either: According to Twenge, research shows that high school teachers now give out an "A" grade more easily than their counterparts did in the 1970s, even though today's high school students report doing less homework than students from that era."

As parents, teachers, and mentors of the children and youth of today, are we quick to flatter those we influence and raise?  Or are we providing a balance of accurate and deserved encouragement and praise along with loving correction, rebuke, and exhortation?

Let us not forget the problem of sin that exists in all of our lives.

Romans 12:3b "Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought"

Jeremiah 9:23-24 " 23Thus says the LORD, "Let not a wise man boast of his wisdom, and let not the mighty man boast of his might, let not a rich man boast of his riches; 24but let him who boasts boast of this, that he understands and knows Me, that I am the LORD who exercises lovingkindness, justice and righteousness on earth; for I delight in these things," declares the LORD."

Proverbs 29:5 "A man who flatters his neighbor is spreading a net for his steps."

Quotes - Charles Spurgeon

“Do not expect to get, in the first year of your pastorate, that result which is the reward of twenty years of continuous toil in one place” Charles Spurgeon - The Soul Winner (96)

"the less you think of yourself, the more people will think of you” Charles Spurgeon - The Soul Winner (58)

Christmas Gift Ideas for Teens - Christian Magazine

Are you looking for a Christmas gift for your teenage child or relative? Want to give them something that will challenge and grow them in their Christian walk?

Try looking into some of these magazines from Focus on the Family.

Don't forget, if you go to Severns Valley Baptist Church Student Ministry we provide Essential Connections magazine/devotional each month for your teenage child. Encourage them to pick up a copy!

Lifeway also provides the three below magazines for teenage girls (not a subscription though):

These 3 magazines are written by author Vicki Courtney who will be coming to Severns Valley Baptist Church on April 18th for a "You and Your Girl" mother/daughter conference.

Quote - Charles Spurgeon

“Tell the sinner all the doctrines.  If you hold to Calvinistic doctrine, as I hope you do, do not stutter about it, nor stammer over it, but speak it out.  Depend on it, many revivals have been evanescent because a full-orbed gospel was not proclaimed.  Give the people every truth, every truth baptized in holy fire, and each truth will have its own useful effect on the mind.” Charles Spurgeon - The Soul Winner (211)

Quote - Charles Spurgeon

“A tract is a useful thing, but a living word is better.  Your eye, and face, and voice will all help.  Do not be so cowardly as to give a piece of paper where your own speech would be so much better.” Charlese Spurgeon - The Soul Winner (193)

Quote - Charles Spurgeon

“Young men and old men, and sisters of all ages, if you love the Lord, get a passion for souls. Do you not see them? They are going down to hell by thousands; as often as the hand upon the dial completes its circuit, hell devours multitudes, some of them ignorant of Christ and others willfully rejecting Him.” Charles Spurgeon - The Soul Winner (176)

Quote - Charles Spurgeon

“How can you serve the Lord with your lips if you do not serve Him with your lives?” Charles Spurgeon - The Soul Winner (160)

Quote - Charles Spurgeon

“We ought to regard the Christian Church, not as a luxurious hostelry where Christian gentlemen may each one dwell at his ease in his own inn, but as a barracks in which soldiers are gathered together to be drilled and trained for war.”  Charles Spurgeon - The Soul Winner (158)

Quote - Charles Spurgeon

"Nothing but the Gospel can sweep away the social evil." Charles Spurgeon - The Soul Winner (206)

Halloween Questions

Have you ever struggled with or given thought to the celebration of Halloween?

Here are some good responses to questions Christians may have regarding Halloween:

What are the origins of Halloween? Should Christians celebrate Halloween? What does the Bible say about ghosts / hauntings? Is there activity of demonic spirits in the world today?

What is Wicca?  Is Wicca witchcraft?

"What is Satanism?"

Quotes - Charles Spurgeon

"As soon as a man has found Christ, he begins to find others." Charles Spurgeon "I will not believe that thou hast tasted of the honey of the gospel if thou can eat it all to thyself." Charles Spurgeon From: http://www.christianquotes.org/

Quote - D.L. Moody

"There is no better evangelist in the world than the Holy Spirit." D.L. Moody From: http://www.christianquotes.org/